Some people have no clue

So my roommate has this girlfriend that's basically a bitch. She treats him like shit all the time and for some reason he stays with her. I don't understand it. From what I've seen he's a little scared of being single again. I think it's a lot better being single than being with the wrong person though. It's a concept a lot of people don't seem to be able to grasp.

I know that in quite a few cases in my past being single was a whole hell of a lot better than dating whoever I was dating. I resent people that think bachelorhood is miserable and lonely. Honestly, these are some of the best years of my life. I certainly don't want to hurt anybodies feelings but the fact of the matter is in the last few years I've been happy more often than not when the relationships I was in ended.

There really isn't anything wrong with being content like that. A lot of the problems are the perceptions people have of where someone should be at a given point in their lives. The problem is they perceive things in a linear fashion. You date when you're such and such an age, you get married after that, you have kids. They don't seem to see that everybody does things their own way.

Personally after being engaged I'm glad to be single. I learned a lot about what I want out of a relationship. I think I may have learned more about what I want to avoid though.

It's funny to me that a lot of people assume someone in my position in life would be lonely. The thing is I'm not. I'd certainly love to be dating someone I actually want to be with, but for now I'm just enjoying having all the freedom only a bachelor can have.

I'll find the right girl when I find her, there's no reason to worry about it. For now I'm glad I'm content with my life. It sure as hell beats bitching about it all the time. Of course I guess that's how some people deal with their shit now then isn't it?